Children learn aggression by watching adults, siblings, or media. If a child witnesses shouting, hitting, or verbal abuse at home, they internalize fighting as a normal problem-solving tool. FightingKidsNet emphasizes that parents must first examine their own conflict styles.
Visual aids work wonders for children. Create a chart with three columns: | Feeling | Bad Choice (Fighting) | Good Choice (FightingKidsNet Way) | |---------|----------------------|------------------------------------| | Angry | Hit, scream | Walk away, squeeze a pillow | | Jealous | Take toy, push | Say “I want a turn,” wait | | Scared | Hide, hit | Ask for a hug, use safe words | fightingkidsnet
Place this chart where fights commonly occur (e.g., playroom, kitchen fridge). Children learn aggression by watching adults, siblings, or
Children join violent networks for three reasons: boredom, belonging, or bravery (to prove they aren't scared). Visual aids work wonders for children